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At random: More decorations for valor have been awarded, per man, to the submarine service than any other Navy Branch.
"I Salute You!"
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Pig
Posted 2009-04-24 5:54 AM (#26012)
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Posts: 5024

Location: Gulfport, MS
Subject: "I Salute You!"

Received this from a shipmate this morning. Don't know the lady that wrote it, but I would give her a big hug if I did...



I Salute You!

By Patricia Salwei

I approached the entrance to Fort Belvoir's medical facility last
year as an old veteran puttered towards me. Easily over 80 years old, stooped
and slow, I barely gave him a second glance because on his heels was a
full bird colonel.

As they approached, I rendered a sharp salute and barked, "Good
morning, Sir!" Because they were heel to toe, I began my salute as the old
veteran was about two paces from me. He immediately came to life!

Transformed by my greeting, he rose to his full height, returned my
salute with pride, and exclaimed, "Good morning captain!" I was startled,
but the full bird behind him was flabbergasted. The colonel stopped mid-
salute, smiled at me and quietly moved on.

As I entered the clinic, the utter beauty of the encounter preoccupied me.
What prompted the old man to assume that I was saluting him.
Perhaps he just thought, "It's about time!" After all, doesn't a veteran outrank
us all?

I turned my attention to the waiting room taking a moment to survey
the veterans there. Service people rushed around, loudspeakers blared,
the bell for the prescription window kept ringing. It was a whirl of
activity and the older veterans sat quietly on the outside seemingly out of step,
patiently waiting to be seen. Nobody was seeing.

My old friend stayed on my mind. I began to pay attention to the
military's attitude towards its veterans. I witnessed indifference: Impatient
soldiers and airmen plowing over little old ladies at the commissary; I
noticed my own agitation as an older couple cornered me at the Officer's Club and
began reminiscing about their tour in Germany.

To our disgrace, I have also witnessed disdain: At Ramstein Air Base
terminal, an airman was condescending and borderline cruel with a deaf
veteran flying Space Available; An ancient woman wearing a WACS
button was shoved aside by a cadet at the Women's Memorial dedication in D.C.; A
member of the color guard turned away in disgust from a drunk Vietnam vet
trying to talk to him before the Veteran's Day Ceremony at the Vietnam War
Memorial.

Have you been to a ceremony at the Wall lately? How about a
Veteran's Day parade in a small town? The crowds are growing faint. Why do we
expect the general public to care if we don't? We are getting comfortable again.

It is not my intention to minimize the selfless service of our modern
military; my comrades are the greatest people I know. But lately I'm
wondering if the public's attitude towards the military isn't just a
reflection of the active duty military's attitude towards its own
veterans.

It's time to ask -- do we regard them, do we consider them at all?
How does our attitude change when the hero is no longer wearing a uniform?

I was proud to wear my uniform. Can I admit that I thought it was
cool? There is no denying that there is something about our profession,
combined with youth, that feeds the ego a little.

We have all seen a young pilot strut into the Officer's Club with his
flight suit on. He matters; he takes on the room; he knows he can take on
the world. But, one day he will leave his jet for a desk, and eventually he
will have to hang up that flight suit. A super hero hanging up his cape.

How will we measure his value then? He will no longer look like a
pilot, an officer, a colonel. He'll just look like an old man coming out of the
clinic with his prescription.

But, is he less of a hero? Will anybody remember or care about
all the months he spent away from his newborn daughter while making peace a
possibility in the Balkans? Probably not.

Our society has a short memory. Maybe it is not for the protected to
understand. Rather, it is my hope that when a young lieutenant
walks by him they will each see themselves reflected in the other - one's future,
the other's past. In that moment, perhaps, the lieutenant will also see
the hero, now disguised as an old man, and thank him.

The truth is there are heroes in disguise everywhere. I used to
wonder why people would want to chat with me when I was in uniform, telling me
about their four years as a radio operator in Korea. So what? I wasn't
impressed relative to my own experiences. Now I understand that they were
telling me because nobody else cared. Proud of their service, no matter how
limited, and still in love with our country, they were trying to stay connected.

Their stories were a code for "I understand and appreciate you, can
you appreciate me?" The answer is yes.

I separated from the military in February. I'm out of the club.
Still, I want you to know that I'll attend the parades, visit the memorials,
and honor you while my kids and your kids are watching.

Then, maybe someday when I'm an old woman riding the metro, a young
airman will take a moment of her time to listen to one of my war stories.
I, in turn, will soak in her beauty and strength, and remember.

Today as I reflect on my adventures in the Air Force, I'm thinking
of that ancient warrior I collided with at Fort Belvoir. I'm wondering
where he is, if he's still alive, if it's too late to thank him. I want to start a
campaign in his honor - Salute a Veteran. Yes, this started out as a
misunderstanding on my part. But, now I get it. That day was the
first time in my life that I really understood what it meant to salute
someone.

Dear veteran, I recognize and hail you! I do understand what I have
and what you have given to make it possible. So I'm wondering if we
meet on the street again, may I salute you?

steamboat
Posted 2009-04-24 11:10 AM (#26017 - in reply to #26012)
Master and Commander

Posts: 1814

Location: Boydton, Virginia
Subject: RE: "I Salute You!"

Very poinant, Ken. Thank you. How about posting it every once in a while. We all need a reminder like that ever so often.
Steamboat sends
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